MEET WOMEN’S ORGASM SECRETS

I Had The Best Orgasm With Sex Toy

I unlocked my own “O” with a little help from an unexpectedly arousing plaything. Maybe my story will inspire you to discover the sexcessories that will change your life.

I was 22 years old in a shower in Paris when I had my first orgasm. There was no man in sight-just a phallic, plastic shaft the same color as a blue raspberry Blow Pop. In that steamy (literally) moment, the Blueberry Bliss vibrator changed my sexual life.

Before Blueberry, sex was pure frustration. “You like that?” guys would ask from between my legs. “Um, keep going,” I’d instruct, as clueless boyfriends rubbed everywhere but my clitoris. Occasionally, someone would get close-but I’d always stop him by faking an orgasm (lots of loud puppyish noises did the trick) just as the sensation started to get really intense. The truth is, I was scared. Although I lost my virginity at 15 and always had boyfriends, I never really masturbated. I spent more time fantasizing about crushes falling in love with me than discovering what I found arousing. Tapping into my own pleasure seemed less motivating than making myself into what guys wanted. Plus, being an orgasm virgin made me afraid of my body. If I come, will I pee? I wondered. Sometimes, it felt like I might.

By my 20s, I knew I was missing out. “Maybe I’ve had an orgasm,” I’d say to friends. “If l think I have, I probably have … right?” They stared at me with pity. One Sunday, my best friend dragged me to Babeland. I chose the Blueberry Bliss Turbo Glider because it was the cheapest, and I promptly hid it deep in my closet from my then live-in boyfriend. I continued to fake orgasms with him and then felt resentful about the fact that he got a lot more pleasure from our sex life than I did. A few days before traveling to Paris for a summer study-abroad trip, I slid Blueberry into my suitcase on a whim.

Was it in the spirit of trying new things that I whipped it out and took it with me into the shower? More likely, it was because I was finally alone. I stood there, water streaming down my face, rubbing the vibrator (on medium speed) in a circular motion on my clitoris until, miracle of miracles, my mind went blank and my entire body tumed to fizz. I let out a soft little “oh,” more of a choke than a moan. Do you even need to ask how I spent the rest of my summer in Paris? There were no guys involved, but I was coming daily.

It took getting myself off to learn that sexual chemistry requires a give and take. Once I knew how I liked to be touched, I dropped the fake porny act and realized that compromising my own pleasure for the sake of someone else’s feelings was only going to hurt my relationships. Ultimately, this led to breaking up with the boyfriend, who could never get the job done, even after I figured out how to explain what tumed me on. Without Blueberry, I might still be with him. Happily, I now have mindblowing orgasms with other human beings. In fact, I hardly ever use Blueberry anymore. But we’ll always have Paris.

The Orgasm of Male Sex Dolls

The male sex doll is just like the normal female sex dolls, though it is a little inefficient since it can’t be active as much as it should. For example, it is relatively poor when we are talking about sex positions that require men to be at the top like the conventional missionary, against the wall, standing position and doggy. However, it is superb for cowLady rides and reverse missionary and ladies who like these styles and other similar styles will definitely enjoy male sex dolls.

Furthermore, Sex dolls allow men and women to explore their sexual fantasies without the negative judgements that often tag them socially, emotional deviant or adulteress as the case may be. Plus it has helped a lot of people to improve their sex life. Ladies often get to understand their body better through sex with sex dolls, and men learn how to work on their sexual skills to improve their sex with their partner.

The Different Kinds of “O”s

Women can have various kinds of orgasms, and they all feel different. What type she has really depends on where and how she’s stimulated. it’s a good idea to understand each kind so you know how to give them to yourself. Here they are:

• Clitoral

  This is the most common type for a woman to have. But don’t think that just because it’s the usual, it’s less special. Trust us, it feels sooo good. To give her one, stimulate her clitoris dunng sex–It’s easy to do this in girl-on-top, since her love button will be right in front of you. The key is to start slowly and then rub more a little more aggressively.

• G-Spot

  Women often describe this climax as feeling deeper or more intense. To give her one of these, you have to stimulate her G-spot during sex. We’ve already told you where that is, but here’s a reminder: It’s situated about 2 inches up on the front wall of her vagina. You can hit this spot with your finger to push her to her limit. or you can try it during sex by using the missionary position. Just prop up her butt With a few pillows so her pelvis is at the right angle to let you hrt the area.

• Blended

  The two other Os are damn good in their own right. Now imagine combining the forces of both for one phenomenal finale. Well, that’s what a blended orgasm is. Here’s the best tactic to give her one: Have her lie on her back on the edge of the bed, with her feet dangling over the side and a few pillows underneath her butt to raise her pelvis (this makes it easier for you to hit the G-spot). Stand between her legs, and once you’re thrusting, start teasing her clitoris until she reaches an explosive finale.

The Best Position for Pleasure

When you think of spicing up your sex life, missionary probably isn’t the first thing that comes to mind. But these three variations on the classic move will change that.

• Sit up and have your guy stand between your legs. as shown Then lift your hips or wrap your legs around his waist to ensure your clitoris gets stimulated.
• From normal missionary position. ask your man to shimmy up a few inches so the top of his pelvic bone presses into the area around your clitoris. Then have him move his pelvis in little circles (without pulling out) until you orgasm.
• While on your back, extend your legs straight out like a narrow V, then have him straddle you so his legs are outside of yours Not only does this move provide more direct clitoral contact for you. it can also help him last longer.

We are putting ideas together with our content for lovely audiences like you and we expect these ways will help you out in many ways. That’s because sex is a wonderful adventure and an important part of our lives. It can turn your life into a healthy and lovely phenomenon but it can also affect your daily life in multiple ways if proper ways of satisfaction are not tried.

Further Reading:

How to Get Maximum Pleasure for Women Masturbation

Women Masturbation: What You Should Know

A Self Pleasure Guide to Masturbation