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Whether you’re a man, woman or non-binary, identify as straight, gay, bi or undecided, is there anything hotter or downright sexier than buying your partner a sex toy? We think not.

With male sex dolls, sex dolls for homosexuals and the sexiest female sex dolls you could possibly imagine,  we know a thing or two about how to nail gift giving when you’ve decided to buy a sex doll for your partner.

Whether it’s a special birthday, sexy anniversary or a random Tuesday, here’s everything you should know about buying a sex toy for your significant other.

Do your research first

The very last thing you want is to give a gift that isn’t received as enthusiastically as you would have hoped so we suggest that you get into sleuth mode and do a little research first. You might already feel like you know your partner inside and out, but there’s no harm at all in reconfirming what you thought you already knew.

You’ll need to be subtle about this of course. Because you can choose almost every aspect of your sex doll, from hair and eye colour to breast or penis size, nipple colour and bikini line, you’ll actually need to know quite a bit about your intended recipient really finds a turn on.

Your gift shouldn’t be a carbon copy of you

The whole point of buying a sex doll for your partner is to introduce a delicious new element to your sex life. That said, you don’t want to design a carbon copy of yourself. Mix it up, be bold and be brave. If you’re a man buying a sex doll for the lady in your life or your male love interest, it can be tempting to size down when it comes to penis size due to sheer competitiveness. Likewise, if you’re buying for someone who loves breasts and have a decent pair of your own, your first instinct might be that you don’t want your sex doll to have killer boobs and nipples that beg to be sucked on.

The very best gifts are all about what the recipient would actually enjoy. A sex doll is a toy that can enhance and add to your sex life. It isn’t a replacement for you, it’s a chance to dip into a seductive, sexy and kinky world of experimentation so, be bold and daring. Focus on what your partner would most get a kick out of when customising your doll.

Don’t give away the surprise

In a bid to home in on your partner’s most secret desires so your sex doll gift truly rocks their world, it’s tempting to simply come right out and ask. The trick is not to make it feel like a job interview. Ease into it with a discussion about fantasies and turn ons, so you can gather valuable intel without giving the game away. Bonus points if this is done in the bedroom.

Consider making it a shared project

Ok, so telling your recipient that you want to buy a sex doll as a gift does somewhat give the game away. But, that isn’t to say that you can’t make this a project that you share. It could be a highly erotic, incredibly sensual experience. Imagine scrolling through our catalogue, hovering over each doll in turn, debating whether Iris’s incredible curves, Coraline’s incredible ass or the Asia girl Vivi turn you on. And then choosing your dream breast size, selecting the perfect nipples and hottest bikini wax… this could be a shared project that seriously raises the temperature.

Get ready to turn up the heat if you’re long distance

If you’re in a long distance relationship, gift giving can be especially hard but the anticipation of a sex doll arriving at their door can be an incredible turn on. You can build up the suspense and share in the moment with a little forward planning to ensure it’s the best present they’ve ever received.

Get creative. Is there a particular item of clothing or lingerie they beg you to wear? If so, send one to their address. Tease them with what’s to come. Ensure you have Facetime or Skype set up and be on video call when the doll arrives. Then, turn up the heat. Be prepared with things you want to say, do or request they do. Provide instructions as to how they should dress the doll. Draw it out to ramp up the fun and when they can take no more, sit back and watch as they enjoy your gift.

Don’t forget the accessories

Ok, so good hygiene might not be sexy but a little forward planning now on the cleaning and accessories front means your recipient is free to enjoy their sex doll gift to the max.

First up, buy some water-based toy cleaner to keep the doll fresh and ready for use at a moment’s notice.

You’ll also want to throw in a bottle of water-based lube to really draw out the pleasure. It must be water based so that it doesn’t harm the doll’s TPE or silicone skin.

Then, consider accessories. If your recipient isn’t much for planning, a pre-lubricated vagina insert is super convenient. If you want their eyes to roll back in pleasure, our vagina heating rod can be used to heat the inside of your doll’s vagina or anus for Pure. Unadulterated. Bliss.